what to text him when he disappears

so now what? As they say, if it is meant to be then it will be. How have you been? I dont know what to think, unless going back to his family has made him realise there is no future for us [I am of a different culture and religion] and I guess eventually he wants to move back there. This guy, being from the same Different than his. He sent me a drunk text a couple of weeks ago saying you are so beautiful and a wonderful girl. Our vision is to become a supportive community where youll feel that theres someone out there who gets you, supports you in creating and keeping strong bonds between your families and friends. If a guy doesn't text you for a week or ten days, even after you have left him a message or two, you know that he is not interested in you. He was sad but understood I wanted more, and he wasnt ready. Or can I say, boys. Insecure. The problem with me is tjah Im not much of clubber or a drinker but I want someone whos not a completely goody two shoes either. I also told him that I needed to leave a bit early as I had a family evento attend to the next day He was very disappointed but soon got over it . We both made time and hes even lose sleep because he wants time with me. When he reached out again to me I told him that I did not think we should go out again because I didnt feel we were a match/were compatible. I dumped his ass that day..but the story goes on. Chasing likely is what he wants you to do. I too am going through the ghosting of a guy i met.. His 32, am 27. We met 8 months ago, we worked together for few months & everyone at work thought something was going on between ushe had a girlfriend at the time, so I made sure not to get attached. Smith, I just had to respond to your comment!!! His fickelness so early is a bad sign. I casually ask of he wants to hang out before he goes in hopes he might invite me along or to feel out if he wants to include me but he says he already left. She is not a bad person but sadly she is not normal due to her borderline personality disorder. He said ok sure but no change We again tried to talk things over. Kind of held on to that it was special. Never once does a Woman ask what do I bring to the table? He gets ready for work. I so desperately wanted closure, or more, and told him so. We talked and met each other for 3 weeks every day. I guess he texted me on impulse and then regretted it and is not man enough to face it hmm. Therefore time-wasters do not deserve our time! 3. I am a great friend but I have seen so many relationship failure that I much prefer to keep distance when things gets too hot! I did not answer nor respond last night when he tried contacting me. I had one bad day of anger text messages, one email of peace making (not begging or trying to get back together) but I am done with contact now. Its really not about you at all. Yes, we do, but we want things like they were in the first 2 months or so when we are on our best behavior. I stopped caring years ago as Ive encountered too many disappointments with getting emotionally used. Your guy broke-up with you and explained that he didnt want a relationship. The Dreamer I was! Keeping in mind that a reply that you might think is cute and cheeky, is usually perceived as more passive aggressive. No more calls but he would text but the texts were not as often, maybe once a week instead of everyday. No need to be upset girl He replied a few days later and then we started texting each other on and off every couple of days. Days? We saw each other 8 times over those 3 weeks. At this point it was a friendship. Dates ARE personal, and when a man disappears, its essentially saying, thanks but no thanks. Ick. But a week b4 we had a really bonding text back n forth. So I leave kind of disappointed I even came if he was so out of it. He might have made up with an ex or went out with someone he likes. But, in the end, its nothing you did wrong. No matter if they say they are miserable, unhappy, etc, you should not have entered into a relationship with someone else who is married. 10. I call he doesnt answer. Going in the wrong order leads to hurt feelings and disappointment, especially if its rushed for fear of losing the other person or to make sure hes serious. If you cant tell whether someone is in love with you, they probably arent. Some things you should keep an eye out for are: Nonetheless, when a guy disappears and then texts, you dont have to continue the conversation as if nothing happened. I just did that failed to initiate honest conversationand the end came fast and rather painfully. 1. You can look at this situation in two way. 1. Im He wont answer my calls or respond to my texts. Immerse yourself in work, spend time with friends, check out a cool new bar or museum, try out a new exercise class. He seems all set and he is being rude to you! Last Saturday he invited me round to his house and we spike about things . He would jump to the internet right after his work to talk to me but now, even when he has the time he just doesnt seem to be interested in talking to me. Life certainly isnt. We both used each other as ego boosters actually but I really wanted more then he got himself a girl friend, so we stayed just as friends. Since you know a lot about tech, what kind of laptop should I invest in for long-term service? You just have to decide whether you want to take the risk on him again is he selfish, cowardly and flakey or someone that hit a rough patch but generally is neither selfish, flakey nor cowardly? He said he had a great time. that was last week, I did not realize that will be last we will talk. He wanted to know what movie and knew how to keep the convo going which was a total switch from the last guy I dated who just let things die while talking on the phone or in text. As of now, im not texting him again until he wants to text me first so i can at least tell if he still wants to talk with me. At one point I was going to go home and shower and he told me to shower at his place and just put his sweats on. They live in the same town. And I bet youve had so many unnecessary problems with your significant other where you wanted all of his attention to be on you 24/7 and it caused arguments and disagreements. Thats okay but I am going to have some space and also let you figure out what you want. People arent definable, relationships arent definable. We dated for 6 months. When we met it was like it was meant to be. The difficulty very often in these cases (which compounds the process) is that most women (myself included at one time) automatically assume hes vanished because he isnt or has lost interested, so react accordingly, which often only serves in turn to strengthen his original point of view. I went to his house and he had the rest of my stuff thatv I hadnt taken in a box. Man, what is going on with guys? I see that men take a long time to mature. No response either. He told me he was legally separated. My daughter thinks hes gay. trust me. However I do feel that when a men does the disappearing act instead of being a men and talking to you about whatever his issue is, the hurt lasts longer and is more hurtful. He initiated a hang out and asked for my address to pick me up, said he was about to leave annnnddddddddd nothing. Is it because he knew that there will be no sex and no nothing more or what.. why wont he explain or atleast try to.. Could anyone please explain.. No birthday card, no Xmas presents, no valentines card. Im curious.. Prior to this we had spoken every day multiple times a day via text with funny pictures and videos and just overall hows ur day how was work what are you doing now. I was very surpriced and a bit confused. It took me awhile to reply to his text, when i did it was high-five happy and sexually overt, not a great reflection of me, I dont drink but when i re-read the text I sounded drunk! I pretty much pushed to meet although the agreement to go for a drink was mutual. I had high hopes, i thought guys like these acts. That night we had a huge fight again, over a petty issue (courtesy his bad temper) He sent me a text saying I blocked your number I did the same. I counted down with him It can be very upsetting for a guy to leave you hanging for days without a message, so it's important you get your mind focused on the steps I'm about to give you because they'll make everything much easier for you, just follow along. That was it . I just delete their numbers after 1 day of no contact. if hes not wanting me why he still keeping.. and still want to meet me ? Happy to help. second date rolls around. Then he asked me to join him for thanksgiving dinner with his family. However, that doesnt excuse his sudden behavior of disappearance. Rabz, Under no circumstance, will you reach out to him, text him, tweet him, call him or have any sort of contact with him..The thing about men, unfortunately is that they love the chase..And they also like confident women who at least seem not to require their reassuranceYou have contacted him enough..Let him get some space, some time to miss your presence..He cannot do it with you constantly reaching out to him..Guys need time to themselves where they can feel like men again..they are not like women who need to close the space, with constant contact..So just let him beTry not to think about himI dont think he was turned off by your looks or personality..But sometimes insecurity can be an attraction killer since the guy feels pressured to reassure the girl over and over again, so it can be a bit draining..so Now you need to step back from your phone, because nothing is going to happen by sitting by and waiting for him to reach out to youHe will come around if he is meant to be with youDont give him anymore importance or time or energyIt is painful when things dont work out, believe me, I have been there over and over againBut losing sight of ourselves is not going to do anything..Yes he is a jerk for losing touch, he is a big jerk for not telling you, but by reaching out to him you are giving him a negative ego boostJust let things run their courseAnd try to open yourself to other guys on that siteI need to take that advice too, though its been difficult to even look at other mens profiles..but you just have to push through your disappointment..By the time he comes around, you will probably have found someone else who respects you for who you are and is not scared off by a few extra textsand you probably wont even want him anymore..so be Kind to yourself, buy yourself a pretty dress, wear some heels, and go out with your friends.You never know, you might meet someone really awesome who will make you forget this guy who you met online.. Thankyiu so much! We got super flirty, and sent many inuendos. I think Im going to give time a chance, letting him miss me and see if he come back but I would like to hear everyone elses opinions! I also dont sleep with men if they havent made a commitment which most shy from. Im sorry to say that even dating in the senior years, there are people that are grand mothers (and grand fathers) that behave like this. We kept on chatting (sometimes we messaged for entire nights!) To which he relied he will give me a shout later but that was last Tuesday and he hasnt called or texted. As a woman Ive been told by magazines, reality shows, media that relationships are this or that but the real deal is, humans are too complex to be fit into criteria. As seen above, it has nothing to do with you when a guy does that, so girls! When I asked him if things were okay and that when i noticed he was getting distant I was willing to give him space, he asked me why I was giving him spaced and that he liked hearing from me. He's in the habit of texting you in the early hours, such as before bedtime or when he's partying with his friends. When a guy disappears on you, dont text him love confessions or accusations, let it go and turn to yourself because she needs you. At first I thought hed met someone else on his weekend but to be honest its not like we were official so I dont get why he would cut me out! Go find someone who actually wants to be with you someone that you dont have to wonder about. Be strong and not confused. I pull back too cause I believe No matter him much it hurts I have too much a Self Respect to serve as anyones entertainment!!!! He told me he cared about me. I opened up to him on halloween the way I was feeling he said he really likes that he would like to continue seeing me but cant so the relationship label. He was supposed to come back and help me with something I needed done and never came, never called, never text. I dont care about the collateral damage or that she may feel it was mean. Hes the kind of energetic, restless and happy boy as opossed to me Im much more laid back and quiet. Im Youre seeing a guy for a little while, it could be weeks or maybe months. I had the signs beforehand that maybe he has little emotional intelligence. He never once even insinuated he wanted m to permanently leave him alone. Subscribe to my YouTube channel now.I post new dating. I didnt beg, bt offered him space and hoped we would find our way back to each other. So i stopped thinking of him and concentrated on sorting out my mortgage and looking for a flat. I respected this and gave him space. It is important to give a Virgo man space when he needs it, as this will help him to process his feelings and come back to the relationship stronger. No one reserves the right to have a foot in the door of my life. I left on a positive note and we didnt argue . We talked everyday, he promised to make it work. He was kind of my unicorn, and Im just wondering if it was a timing issue (Im not in the best place right now, hes super busy with school) or if he really just lost interest in me. Im destroyed emotionally. Im hurting everyday though, But im realizing this situation aint getting any better. Youll be the backup plan hell come back to whenever he has no other choices to pick from. 1. It doesnt matter, it means the same thing: hes not into you and doesnt see this relationship going anywhere. Youll be like ugh, okay, next. And spent a few hours there, ate, had fun and came back around 7 pm and he drove, paid for everything. Why do they go missing just to come back days or weeks later? He texts me, emails me, says Im amazing, but doesnt try and see me again though he stayed 2 more days in my town. He blocks me on Facebook the day or two before his overseas trip. Its a complete and total overeaction to say. I had moved in with him. Women should just focus on their careers. Society, as a whole, has degenerated into a morass of non-judgmental, liberal acceptance of bad behavior and making excuses for those who engage in it. His actions dont define me. Im going through a similar situation and as much as it sucks you have to move on. From an objective point of view, it sounds like he still has unresolved feelings/dealing with his ex-wife. It was so real for me, and I thought it was real for him too. I still have him on social media but hes hardly ever connected so I know theres no point sending him messages cause he wont read them until the next day or so.. and when we do text guys, we want an immediate answer.. Youre wrong. It sucks and its hurting inside, but theres no point wasting your emotion and waiting for someone who doesnt really care about your feelings. We still texted but minimally and he came to pick me up midday for food and a little excursion. Why havent you reached back? It has happened before. Move on and meet someone who is. I dont know. his lost anyweiz.. (-_-) thanks for this post.. this what I really need to forget him..its been a month since our last date but until now I honestly cant stop thinking about him.. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Ethnic background did ask me, how far I had gone with my ex and I was completely honest about it. We met for lunch and I told him that I understood, that when I had been divorced for 11 months I was in a relationship that I shouldnt have been in and I truly just understood how he felt. First time for everything! We got involved quickly. Youve been waiting for him for way too long and he doesnt deserve any more of your patience. He would say he would call but didnt. We spoke the next day on the phone before bed, nothing unusual iv played that call a trillion times in my head texts all that day were finethen POOF!! In his city in a couple No urgency to meet I text him the next day, and get short, limited responses. Texts again started to get less and less. One day, poof, he pulled away for no reason. No call, no text, no snapchat, nothing. I have read others experiences here and it sounds like many have been through worse (being ghosted after months of dating/being ghosted by the same person multiple times), the burn that I felt initially was insignificant compared to what others commentators had been through. Another new experience. I hung out with his close colleagues as well that weekend and that was fine, eveything seemed normal. Theres one of two things going on here- either hes bipolar/clinically depressed (which does happen believe you me) or he switched his focus to another girl. Im widowed, no children, no big baggage, attractive in my early 50s. I still remember what he has told me just know that I will come back, I dont want you to worry that suddenly I wont want to talk to you Its been a month already and where is he now, gone with the wind. Should I move on or write to him? It really is a coward move. I am honest in my interactions and friendly and Im not judgemental. But the problem here is that I was inlove, he is my every breath .. so I did everything to get him back . Sunday night I felt that maybe he was embarrassed by not having sex so I sent another text. But really because i became psycho bitch and a sent a few more texts regardless contact was made- and it turns out he needed space then back to silence. .. Hard to not know what he thinks and I guess its not much for me cause no response is an answer within itself. The third time was because he did something stupid while drunk about 9 months later. Im very upset but Im trying really hard to work on myself and confidence and self esteem I hadnt relised how men and women think so differently and Im 60. Why? Shes been with him for 6 months and he says he doesnt want a commitment but he will act like her boyfriend when hes with her and then disappears for a few days. Although I insisted our conversations were casual and playful and nothing serious cas we had talked about things over the phone . If he cant give you what you want then maybe its best if he walks away and never comes back. And pleeeeeeease delete those losers from your social media websites and YOUR PHONE!!! Im threw as well it ducks it hurts but after reading the article above it has just helped me so much to really see its no our faults God moves out the bad for the good ones when its time God will tell us. I think its more about him doing this to me than it is anything else. First time he did it, he just stopped initiating contact for two months. Apparently OVER friendly and i most probably appeared clingy. The similarity makes things easier, validates self-values, and requires putting less effort than when two partners have opposite interests. lets just take it as a good lesson and move on. My emails have been hacked by people I had met online, not to get finance info, but to spy on me and read my chat history, so beware! He has a habit of responding late or worst not responding at all to my messages and he has his reasons. Never ever ever give a dude money. Im having a hard time reconciling THIS guy (the guy I knew for the last 6 months) and the guy who just up and disappeared. Everything seemed great. Was that a one time deal, or was that something we could do more often. I guess he has issues, and doesnt have time for me. But theres the idea that he thinks I will wait. ahha I think a guy i have recently dated is doing this to me now, and I just deleted his number and all. I know it hurts, but at least it ended before you got in any deeper. I have always held women in esteem and consideration and I never want to be in a position of hurting a woman! We were in relationship for 5-6 months and I started seeing decline in interest after 2-3 months. This is what i believe, and the article was spot on: the right man will not leave you. What you are experiencing is totally what happen to me now. And he still ghosted. Then he confirmed a second appointment for next week ??? then we talk on whatsapp till he asked me to visit him . You need to find a man, not a boy. If I did that, he would never leave me. Im not doing that just because I dont want to die alone, when I like someone I really want to be worthy to be with her, but I know that at some point Ill run out of my reserve, and it might be really painful to discover she doesnt like me anymore when that happens. Him (10 minutes of silence while he is online): lol What? So he went camping with his kids and I heard nothing. We went to a parade, nice romantic dinner, dessert over candlight the whole nine yards. This guy, being from the same I was and am not. It was very heartfelt. Until few weeks ago after being so consistent for a good 4/5 months his replies would take longer and I didnt question him. We are better off giving up on them and not ourselves by chasing after them or pinning over them. 1. So the day after we meet at 3pm and the time flew so fast we ended up staying lunch dinner and after lunch togheter (we said good bye at 4am in the morning!) He says yeah he needs to get back to dinner. Its not that I have his, he has mine. So dear girls. Are you going to be a mentally stable mother.if not consider what you should do.keep the baby, abort the baby or adopt out the baby. I had a crush on this guy for a really long while on social media and I followed him on facebook, out of curiosity and i didnt even talk with him. I dont cre that much although I spended some energy writing this text but really Im just so curious about hus behviour, he swallowed his ego nd texted me years later and then didnt bother reply back and ghosted on me. good times at a nice restaurant shes still talking quite a bit and im starting to notice having to manufacture interest in the conversation sometimes since i dont really get a turn to talk. Insecure? But to keep viewing my profile thats fd up. Well the painful thing is he really lives very close to me and even though I havent seen him I see his car and he knows if someone is staying over and also I do want my stuff back- advice to everyone never date close to where you live.. Good for you girl! He never once showed me any of his past warmth such as reaching to touch me etc, while I was there. If you've been texting with a dude for say two weeks and then you stop, it's going to take him at least five or six days until he registers the change unless he's very into you. Cause I said wait you have a darn phone and know my number!! Ok, I told him I get it and gave him nothing but space, leaving him alone. He remembered everything that we spoke about via text and one phone call. Your smiling face suddenly turned well, not so smiling, with his sudden lack of texts. The next day he texts me Im sorry for everything. Idk what to do now though. I normally snap a bunch of ppl through out the morning so I snapchatted him and a bunch of other ppl a video of what my dog was doing. Am I able to ever cross over again now that we are friends cuz I dont feel like I have gotten uglier and I know he was physically attracted to me. If he wouldve just had the balls to tell me it wasnt working out I wouldve been fine. It took me a long time to get to the point where it didnt make me mad, but I got over it because i wasnt trying to be his woman anyway, so no loss for me. His goal is to get you to do as he wants because thats the only way youll keep welcoming him back. We shall wait together, ok? Your email address will not be published. Guys have a sixth sense concerning what they can get away with, and you have a past history of guys who apparently think they can take you or leave youand youll stick around waiting for them to figure it out. Its a waste of energy. ghosting is the alternative to saying Im not really attracted to you anymore. which would you prefer? I am guessing me spending the night was too real for him and he got freaked out or after seeing the real me he just changed his feelings and didnt know how to tell me. The 2 days before he was supposed to spend the weekend with me and a month before he was due to move back for good, I got a message saying he didnt know how to say this but at the moment he thought it would be best if he didnt see me that weekend and that he knew it was completely out of the blue and unfair but he was sorry. Not fair. Id give the both of you one more chance she how she controls herself on movie night see if she lets you watch the movie. Wtf, go away and leave me in peace. I went to his house and he didnt answer the door, he usually left it unlocked for me when he knew I was coming over and it was locked, i tried calling his phone 2 times incase he had fallen asleep and nothing, so i left sending him a text message that I understood if he needed space and to let me know if there was anything I could do. Also, read my comments above. I needed chill and someone who was responsive. It sounds like such a clich, I know. If he met someone new that was competition for you, since he wasnt officially your boyfriend chances are he would try to hang out with you also- at least for a while, instead of suddenly going cold. Its not like we went out for one date or even two. He is even more beuatiful then I rememberd and we really clicked again and he laughed at my jokes and gave me twice like this really nice hug . Its making me so sad. Im not going to judge. Definitely feeling like an idiot. 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